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Venues in San Diego, CA,
(619) 291-9110
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4.7 out of 5
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    Zachariah T Overmyer

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  • Brooke @ Tom Ham's Lighthouse is AMAZING. She was friendly, responsive and extremely helpful. This venue is so affordable with breathtaking views and incredible food options. After booking this venue, I'm so excited for our special day!

    Marissa

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    5 out of 5
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  • Planning a wedding during COVID is no easy feat but you CAN have the wedding of your dreams with vendors like Tom Ham's. Pre-Covid, TH was always my dream wedding venue. We snagged our date after touring the venue. You cannot beat the location and view. Wow, I am now so glad I chose TH. With all of the regulations put in place there was a time I was worried we would have to postpone or cancel entirely. TH stepped up to the plate and was as cautiously optimistic as I wise that we could pull off a safe and beautiful wedding! Perla is truly incredible! From the beginning, she was organized and detail oriented. We were able to truly have the wedding of our dreams because Perla and TH were able to work with us to create it. Due to COVID, we had a smaller guest list and the biggest change we made was having our reception on the ceremony site. TH did a beautiful job, guests were seated at their reception tables upon arrival. Then after the ceremony, they set up a king's table under the arch. ... Read more

    Stevie Brosh

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    5 out of 5
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  • Two days before our scheduled wedding, our venue called and canceled. Our awesome photographer (Katherine Beth Photography) mentioned them, we reached out right away, and with 24hr to spare, we had a venue for our intimate ceremony and lunch. They really felt for us and were able to work some magic around another event that day just to help us out (shoutout to the coordinator, Perla)! By the time we got there, our story had circulated the staff and they could not have been more accommodating. One of the owners (Andy) stepped right in there, didn't even realize who he was at the time. Tom Ham's offer such gorgeous views, great food, and amazing service! They helped make our day SO special and for that, we are forever grateful. If you are looking for a San Diego venue, don't leave this place off the list!

    Julie

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    5 out of 5
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  • We are so happy we chose this venue. They have a beautiful ceremony site, large patio and reception room, all on the waterfront with a million-dollar view of the harbor and downtown skyline. As a top-notch restaurant (regular dining is upstairs and totally separate from the wedding venue) , the food is delicious and the serving staff and bartenders are very professional. Linens, tables and chairs are all included so you don't have to worry about those details. Brooke and Perla provide exceptionally professional and responsive service, so you can be confident through the whole process that your wedding will be wonderful.

    Jahara

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    5 out of 5
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  • We had our wedding last Sunday and loved everything about Tom Ham’s - the location, the delicious food, the affordable price, and the staff! Perla (one of the event coordinators) did such an amazing job assisting us and answered all of our questions promptly - thank you so much!! We are so happy that we chose Tom Ham’s Lighthouse!

    Danielle Ashley

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    5 out of 5
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  • Seriously this venue is beautiful! It can be a little pricey, but worth it! The staff are so wonderful and helpful! The food was amazing. Buffet was worth it! People kept coming up to us and telling us this was the most beautiful wedding they have ever been too. Also you cant beat that San Diego Sky line view during the sunset!

    Molly Flood

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    5 out of 5
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  • First of all, Tom Ham's Lighthouse is one of the most beautiful wedding venues we have ever seen! Coming from Kansas City, we wanted to find a venue with that "wow factor" feeling for our out of town guests. Goodness did Tom Ham's deliver!! More importantly though, Brooke and Perla at Tom Ham's made the entire planning process a breeze. They were incredibly responsive and professional, which was necessary when planning a destination wedding. The food from the restaurant was so delicious and it was so nice being able to add a second bar on the patio to make sure there was never a line!! If you're able to get the entire first floor for your wedding day, we highly recommend doing so, as it really makes the ceremony, to cocktail hour to reception process go so smoothly. Thank you again Brooke and Perla for making our day so perfect. We will be back soon!!!!

    Jessica Casinelli

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  • The food, the venue, the waitstaff, absolutely everything was perfect having our wedding at Tom Hams. It was truly the most classy venue. People are still raving about the food, saying it’s the best wedding food they’ve ever had. But the wedding coordinators Brooke and Perla truly made planning our wedding seamless. Most wedding venues you have to get your own coordinator. These two women helped me with every detail and made our wedding day the best day ever. Hands down the best venue to get married at in San Diego!

    Jenn

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  • Everything about this venue from the location on the water looking back at the city to the food, just perfection

    Sarah

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  • This is the most beautiful wedding venue. We received so many compliments on how nice the ceremony and reception space was. Brooke and her team are awesome and super responsive. Even random one-off questions about table cloths and high chairs, etc. were all answered quickly and in a positive manner. We had the best experience and are so thankful we found Tom Ham's. A few of our guests said it was the best food they have ever had at a wedding and several told our parents it was the nicest wedding they had been to. We did centerpieces and up-lights and other than that the venue is the decoration, so its perfect for those who don't have a huge decoration budget or want a more classic feel.

    Abigail

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  • My husband and I actually met at Tom Ham's years ago and his family has had many events here. Even after the remodel I was very please with their service and professionalism. The wedding coordinator team was very prompt in responding and I highly recommend the venue. So beautiful!

    Haley

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  • All of our guests remarked how fantastic the food was, most saying it rivaled the best they've ever had for a wedding. On top of that, the drinks were great, the staff was very attentive, and of course, the views were spectacular. If you're considering having your ceremony and/or reception at Tom Ham's, don't think twice!

    Savannah

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  • We had our Fourth of July wedding at Tom Ham’s Lighthouse and it was incredible! Perla and Sarah were amazing. They were so professional and personable through out the whole processes from our first tour to the tasting to our wedding day. I appreciated their attentiveness to us on our big day making sure every detail was right and that we were taken care of! I cannot thank them enough. The food was great (we did the buffet) and the view for the fireworks was to die for! All our friends tell us it was hands down the best wedding they have ever been too. This venue does not disappoint and neither does the staff. I cannot say enough good things about them!

    Mariah

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  • Tom Ham's is a beautiful venue. The ocean views from both the ceremony space and the reception space are hard to beat. The staff is very responsive and professional. Because the tables, chairs, linen, and food are all provided it's perfect for a bride who doesn't need or want to pick out every little detail or for someone planning from afar.

    Camille

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  • This place is amazing!!! The staff at Tom Ham’s were extremely helpful throughout my entire wedding planning, and the food and views were just stunning!!!! Absolutely loved it.
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