Beautiful venue. Maitre'd did an excellent job handling everything!

A diamond in the suburban rough!!! So many amazing things about the Old Tappan Manor. One wedding at a time, fantastic staff from booking to day of our wedding! Great photo opps in and around the grounds! And the food was yummy and they made sure we ate!! So grateful for our families and the Old Tappan Manor for creating our dream wedding day!!!!

I got married at Old Tappan Manor on NYE and it was the greatest night of our lives. The food, the venue itself, the staff, and of course the booze, were all phenomenal. I'm not really sure what a typical wedding venue, including food, usually costs, but we booked over a year in advance, and i feel like it was pretty reasonably priced for one of the most fun wedding nights of the year. We booked with Martin and even though I was constantly e-mailing him and calling him this past year with random questions, he was super-patient with us and never took more than 48 hours to get back to me. He really went above and beyond and was even willing to compromise on extras long after we'd booked when they were really something we wanted. The bridal suite is huge, which I also really liked and we really wanted a venue that wouldn't have multiple affairs going on at once, and OTM we were the only ones. Martin also allowed us to come in a few days early (since the venue was quiet in the week between... Read more Christmas and New Years) to set up some of the stuff - chuppah, centerpieces (we were making ourselves, etc. He was also quite clear on what was owed and when and let me know little things that I might want to take into consideration beforehand (ex: we were being allowed to come in earlier in the day to get ready so the kitchen wouldn't be open yet and we might want to order food for the bridal party, which we did). Richie was also awesome. We met with him about a week before the wedding for the first time, and met with him and Martin a few days before the wedding. Richie was on top of everything. He knew the answer to every question I had and literally did everything he could to reduce my stress level. Our bridal attendant Lauren was so great that my family wanted to bring her home. She catered to us all night, was incredibly patient and polite and had what I wanted half the time before I even asked for it! Book this place, you won't be sorry!

BEST NIGHT EVER! We had our wedding at The Old Tappan Manor on 11/20/2015 - it was truly a PERFECT night!. Martin and Rich are a delight to work with. They were very accommodating with some changes and in working with us to make sure our night was perfect. Martin was so helpful in advising us in all our appointments. Rich, our maître d' was amazing - very helpful in making everything look better than what we ever dreamed of. We are so beyond grateful for their service! Thank you so much!

BEST DECISION! My husband and I had our wedding here a couple of weekends ago and it was the most perfect day! :) I cannot say enough good things about Old Tappan Manor. Joesph and Martin made the planning process an absolute breeze. Rich, Martin, and the team went above and beyond the day of the wedding and I never worried about a thing. They did a fantastic job running the day, working with our vendors, and were extremely attentive. The venue itself is absolutely gorgeous! The combination of the modern decor yet very warm atmosphere, along with the tall windows overlooking the breathtaking view of the waterfall were beautiful. I highly recommend this venue for your wedding! Thank you all for the most special wedding day!!! :)

We had an absolutely beautiful wedding at Old Tappan Manor! I'm so happy with all the service and accommodations they provided. Rich & Lauren took care of us all night! They made sure we were fed, had a drink in our hand & having a good time. They also took great care of our family and friends. (Very effecient and organized!) Our guests raved about all the food ESP. the steak! Cocktail hour was amazing, so many different stations. The ballroom is gorgeous and really won me over when booking Old Tappan Manor. If you are looking for good food, a variety of options and a beautiful atmosphere, go check out this venue!

My wedding reception was at the Old Tappan Manor on September 26, 2015. Everything about our wedding was amazing. From the first time we went to see the venue and meet with Martin we knew this was the place we wanted to have our reception. The Old Tappan Manor is a beautiful, elegant, and classy venue that only has one wedding at a time! Martin is amazing to work with and is extremely helpful with the entire process. The Old Tappan Manor doesn't make you feel like just another couple walking through their doors. They really worked hard to make sure our wedding was amazing, and it was. I felt that they went above and beyond with every aspect of our wedding from the cocktail hour to the reception to the Viennese hour. We received so many compliments on everything- especially the food! The staff was amazing, especially Martin, Richie, and Lauren. They all made sure that our wedding was perfect from the second that we pulled up to the second that we pulled away. I would recommend the Old T... Read moreappan Manor to anyone and hope that I will be able to attend a wedding there sometime soon!

We just had our wedding at The Old Tappan Manor on Saturday, September 12th! We had an absolute amazing time! It was the wedding of our dreams! In the past since week since the wedding, we have received so many compliments about our wedding including how beautiful the venue was, how great the food and service was, etc. It was also very nice to be the only wedding at the venue as we got a lot of one on one attention which was great! This place is a hidden gem in the suburbs of Bergen County! We want to especially thank Richie, Martin, and the rest of the staff at the Old Tappan Manor for making sure our night was absolutely perfect! We would highly recommend this venue!

My daughter had her wedding reception this past Saturday, August 29th at the Old Tappan Manor. This was by far the best wedding reception I have ever attended! From the first day I met with Martin Shanley, the manager until the end of the evening when I said goodbye to the maître d' Rich everything was handled with perfection and the utmost care was given to all. rnThe outside of the venue is meticulously manicured and they have a beautiful waterfall which is a great drop back for pictures.rnThe bridal party has a beautiful private room to start their evening with a private cocktail time.rnThe cocktail hour room with beautiful and the food was plentiful.rnThe reception room looked like a place out of a fairy tale book. It was magnificent. The chandeliers glistened and the lights had just the right touch. The room is surrounded by huge windows and the back window allows the view of the water fall. The flowers were from the Orangeburg Florist in Blauvelt, New York and they added t... Read morehe final touch to the room.rnThe food was out of this world and the wait staff was attentive to all.rnMy guests have not stopped talking about this wonderful wedding. I only wish it was last week so I could do it all over again!rnI highly recommend the Old Tappan Manor to anyone looking for a venue for any occasion. This is the place to be!rn

We just had our wedding at The Old Tappan Manor on Friday 8.28.15 and we had such a wonderful experience. We've received so many compliments about our wedding, venue, food, service, etc...we loved being the only party at the location. The staff was just so wonderful. Big thank you to all: Joseph, Moufid, Martin, Richie, Lauren. We are so happy that we chose this venue and we highly recommend it.

My Husband and I had our reception here on June 6, 2015. After searching many locations about 2 years ago, I was consistently disappointed that I could not find a place I loved. Then, I stumbled upon Old Tappan Manor through some more rigorous searching. I called and made an appointment to see it 2 days later. I was immediately impressed with the location, grounds, and amazing ballroom. I fell in love with it before Martin came down to meet me. We worked with Martin Shanley through pretty much all of the steps. He was easy to get in touch with and followed up on every question I had for him, even the minor ones. On top of that, I felt that Old Tappan Manor went above and beyond to give us little extras. Our Maitre d Richie was also great to work with. I only met him a week before the wedding, but everything went smooth thanks to him. Martin was also present throughout the entire reception which made me feel even more confident about the night going smoothly. All of my guests have said ... Read morenothing but great things about our reception, including cocktail hour, the grounds, the service, the food, etc etc etc. Thank you Old Tappan Manor !!!!!

My husband and I were married at Old Tappan Manor on May 30, 2015 (this past Saturday). We worked with Martin Shanley through most of the process and were pleased with everything! The grounds are absolutely breathtaking (the gorgeous gazebo, the waterfall cascade with patio, the stunning ballroom) and the service was excellent! There was a minor issue with the sushi station (apparently there was a car accident and the sushi did not arrive on time), but Martin quickly let us know about the issue, assured us they were getting replacement sushi, and offered to reimburse us the amount we paid for it! The replacement sushi arrived towards the end of our cocktail hour and Martin made sure not only that people were able to get some before the reception but also that we received a plate of it after our cocktail hour. People also really enjoyed the mashed potato bar, the carving station, as well as so many of the other delicious food available. The level of attention to detail was incredibl... Read moree! Throughout the night, all of our guests kept commenting on how great all of the food was and how attentive the waiters were. The facilities were clean and well maintained. We had a fantastic time and I would highly recommend Old Tappan Manor to any fellow bride and groom looking for a stunning place in northern NJ to celebrate your big day!!!!

Martin, Richie, Maria, and the whole team was great! They were patient, kind, considerate and made us feel that we were important and the only wedding they were working on!

The Old Tappan Manor was the perfect setting for our wedding. Martin and Rich were extremely professional, friendly and helpful. They made the planning process as easy at it could possibly be. We held our ceremony & reception there, and the transformation they perform on the ballroom is amazing and beautiful. The food was INCREDIBLE, the grounds and rooms are beautiful, the service was excellent. I have received so many compliments from our guests on our choice of venue.