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Officiant in Tulsa,

Custom weddings by Reverend Jay Howell

2251 east 8th street
Tulsa, OK
Services: Officiant | Login to save vendor
(918) 691-4713
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  • 63 Reviews


    Leonard

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  • Reverend Jay Howell made are day special!!!

    Michael

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  • Wow! Our wedding was absolutely amazing. Jay was extremely helpful. His advise and direction with my vows, incredible. Listen and let him guide you through your wedding week jitters. Again Thank you Rev. Howell.

    Jon

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  • Jay Howell is a wonderful friend and human being... he is kind, insightful, and did a lot to put us at ease on our big day. We would unequivocally recommend him for anyone as their wedding officiant... traditional or not - religious or non, same-sex or otherwise. Cheers! and Thank You, Jay! :)

    Brianna

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  • Reverend Howell made the entire process so easy for us. Our ceremony venue did not have an officiant on site and we found Jay thru a recommendation. From our first meeting we LOVED his ideas for our ceremony and knew he would be a perfect fit to marry us. We wouldn't have chosen any one else to marry us and are so glad we had Rev. Howell with us on our wedding day!

    User4370045

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  • Rev. Jay Howell was wonderful to work with. He is very prompt,professional, and relevant to all types of people's needs. I would recommend his services to all!

    User3379796

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  • Jay filled in for us at the very last minute but no one would have known it! Jay was absolutely perfect and an amazing addition to our ceremony.

    Kim

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  • Reverend Howell was so great to work with! My husband and I do not live in Oklahoma and Jay was willing to talk with us over the phone several months before the wedding so we could discuss options for the way we would like our ceremony. Once we arrived in OK we met with Jay to discuss the design of our ceremony. Jay was so friendly and down to earth, very easy to talk to and get to know. After our meeting, we left him to design our ceremony and he did an amazing job! Everything that was said at our ceremony was exactly how I had always imagined it-it was perfect!! I am so grateful that we found Jay to be our officiant! I can't think of one thing that could have made our experience with Jay any better!

    User4039595

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  • As a parent of a bride, I was extremely happy with the service provided by Jay Howell. He took time to meet my daughter and her fiancée and used that information to personalize the wedding service. I had multiple guests ask me how we knew Jay and they were surprised to find out that he was not a family friend. Jay also helped with the entire service including reading choices. He encouraged the creation of their own wedding vows and they were perfect. I would recommend Jay.

    Carrie

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  • Jay was everything we wanted and more. We wanted a more laid back ceremony that still had some of the usual traditions. Jay helped us design a ceremony that fit us perfectly. We kept a few traditions and added some of our own unique style. We decided to write our own vows. Jay helped us tremendously by giving us advice and some vow samples to help us decide how we wanted to write them. My husband is vision impaired and legally blind and Jay went above and beyond for him. He helped him by printing his vows in extra large font and also helped him to get through them. Jay also helped both of us get through our wedding. He put both of our minds at ease countless times while we were stressing out. He constantly reminded us, "No matter what happens during the wedding, when it's all over you guys will be married and that's all that matters." That always put everything into perspective. I would definitely recommend Jay to anyone getting married. He made our ceremony amazing and reflect... Read more

    User3683148

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  • Reverend Jay Howell was one of the easiest, kindest, most laid back wedding vendors we worked with. He was so flexible with our crazy work schedules. He made the wedding ceremony tailored to what was right for us. IT WAS PERFECT. I could not have asked for a better service he really made our ceremony unforgettable... If I could do it again Reverend Jay Howell will be FIRST on the list!

    User2852480

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  • Rev. Howell was truly a blessing to work with. He helped us design our ceremony just the way we wanted. We loved his sense of humor. It put everyone at ease during the rehearsal and day of the wedding. He was professional and enthusiastic.. two thumbs up!

    Mauriah

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  • Jay is fantastic! I would highly recommend him as an minister. Our wedding day has some very stressful moments and Jay was so wonderful about making sure I was ok. He is worth every penny. He really made our ceremony something special. If you are looking for someone to marry you he is your man. :) I will recommend him to everyone I know that is getting married.

    Emily

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  • I would recommend Reverend Howell a million times and then some. I grew up in a very catholic family, and my husband was in a more non religious family setting. When planning our wedding I knew that we could not have a traditional catholic wedding, and I was very nervous about finding the right officiant. Our wedding planner Rene Punch with The Tulsa Wedding Society recommended Reverend Howell, who was also apart of the TWS. At this time we lived in a different state for a temporary period of time, and had plans to move back shortly before our wedding. This made the interactions between us and our vendors a little more difficult, but Reverend Howell was very easy to email back and forth. We actually did not meet him until the week or so before our wedding, but as soon as we did it took a weight off of our shoulders. He is so personable and friendly, and also serious when need be. He talked with us about our needs, and made sure that we each got to put in our feedback on the type of ce... Read more

    Jenna

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  • We had a great experience with Jay. All around good guy & a great officiant, especially if you want to write your own vows/customize your ceremony.

    Ana Maria

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  • It was to be one of the most special days of my life and, as such, I needed someone special to preside over the ceremonies. Having interviewed with several officiants, I found myself dejected and certain that I wasn't going to find anyone who could bring the personal sensibility, humor and ease to my wedding that I had so dreamed of. I didn't think I was asking for anything outrageous, but I certainly did not want to be trapped with the typical, the hum-drum, the false sense of ritual that had pervaded so many weddings I had attended. I expressed so much to a close friend over coffee one day and she told me, "I think I know just the person. How did I not think of it before?" She put me in contact with the Reverend Jay Howell, whom I came to call "Jaysus" for having resurrected my spirit, and little by little the pieces of my dream wedding fell back into place. He was accomodating, easy-going and open to the infinite possibilities that our various brain-storming sessions presented... Read more

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