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Venues in Oakdale, NY,
(631) 277-7800
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4.8 out of 5
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  • 65 Reviews


    Leigh

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  • I honestly loved the Bourne Mansion. If anyone walks in and felt the way I did (it was perfect!), I'd highly recommend it. That said, no place is actually perfect. There were a few times over the planning process where I felt ignored. I was also told a few things to make us book that I was later told weren't actually possible and ended up having to pay extra for them. The maître d', Steve, who some feel is a bit rough, was a star- helping me with anything- down to my shoes, and making sure my husband and I had drinks in our hands and were having a good time throughout the evening. The food was better at our tasting than it was the night of the wedding, but these things happen. I will also say that our families were treated like royalty, not needing to go to the bar for their drinks and had someone on hand to help them with whatever they needed. Overall I don't regret booking at the Bourne and would do it again. It's beautiful. I would most likely be a little more aggressive abou... Read more

    Kimberly

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    5 out of 5
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  • I don't even know where to begin... I guess I should start by saying I literally had the wedding of my dreams. The Bourne Mansion is soooo beautiful and all of our guests are still calling to tell us how amazing this venue was. As soon as I walked in there I knew I had to have it there. The food was phenomenol!!! All the guests said so as well. Plus, my husband and I were given one of each dinner on our menu to take home with us that night so we tried it all and the chicken, filet mignon, and the shrimp and they were all so good. The cookies and pastries I figured would be just "whatever" items for dessert but they were actually gourmet and sooo good!!People raved about the cocktail hour and all the food and the Pretzel stand was a HUGE hit.I'm really not one to write reviews because I feel I rarely see service that goes above and beyond today. But Steve Melita my maitre D and Nicolotte my bridal attendant were amazing. Steve and Nicolette made this night amazing for my husband and ... Read more

    User2310155

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  • This place is gorgeous. I have been told over and over again by my guests that this was the most beautiful reception they had ever been too. The food, service, and decor was beautiful.

    Elizabeth

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  • LOVE LOVE LOVE, it was the perfect day because of them!!!! My dream wedding came true

    Chrissy

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  • What is there to say? Amazing, amazing, amazing. Ben Nierenberg was a pleasure to work with--responsive, helpful and didn't mind my pesky visiting of the venue once a month for over a year! Steve the maitre d' was SO AWESOME and Fheggy (sorry for the spelling) was a wonderful bridal attendant. Steve was really the shining member of the staff. He made my husband and I feel so relaxed and helped the day go super smoothly. He gave us everything we needed--we always had a cold drink, he gave us cold, wet napkins to cool down after dancing, he made sure my husband didn't stray too far away from me--he was just GREAT! Steve kept us knowing exactly what we had to do next, without ever feeling pressure or stress. He kept us boozed up and fed and HAPPY!! I am so grateful for him. There are SO MANY reasons to choose the Bourne, but Steve alone is reason enough!! The Bourne is a late 1800's mansion on the Great South Bay, built by the then president of Singer sewing machines, Fredrick Bourne. ... Read more
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